Thursday, February 24, 2011

@^^Be A Good Boyfriend^^@

1. Be honest- In a mature love or relationship, truth allows relationship to breathe, share thoughts with one another and expressing feelings by showing care and transparency.

2. Be respectful- It is exasperating when a partner treats the other inferior in a relationship. Honoring each other will gives better time together.

3. Communicate frequently- Talking helps to understand my partner better. Besides talking, listening too plays very important role in communication. Sometimes listening is the best solution.

4. Make slight physical contact- A light touch to my partner is very much appreciated. Even better give a hug or a light kiss to show that I treasure her a lot.
photo of Cute Kitten hug
5. Surprise gift- Put some thoughts on gifts for special occasion such as birthday, anniversary, festivals and other significant celebrations. Giving what she likes or loves is the best gift. Surprise my partner with an unexpected gift in an unexpected time as a way to her heart.
"It's not about what is the gift but rather it's the heart of the giver" -Valentino Lam-

6. Mix things up- Go new places, try new food, explore new activities, learn new skills, enjoy new culture and know new people. Make time, be adventurous & live life to the fullest.

7. Power of words- Compliment specifically, sincerely and specially will make my partner feel more appreciated. Always keep promises, do it before I say it so that it can fill up the trust and love tanks.

8. Let her be- Give her time and space to do her own things and enjoy herself. This will spice up relationship because she give her all when she's ready.

9. Love myself- Take good care of myself too in order for me to care and cherish her with my best.
    Nasi Lemak, Nyonya Colors @ 1Utama 
10. Be open- Create better understanding with one another. Trust can continue to grow between both of us.
11. Be supportive- In everything she does that is good, I must be there to be her like a sword and shield that she can depend on when time is tough. Through every phase of her life, I am there to protect, provide and pamper her.

12. Be consistent- It is not how good or how much I treat her well but it is how often I be there for her.


Trust + Commitment = Love = Openness + Honesty













Wednesday, February 23, 2011

7H3R3'5 N0 N33D 4 W0RD5 |'''''_'''''|

A tough heart is all I need. My life journey never stop unraveling even obstacles might come my way. With my fists clenched, with my heart burning and my mind fixed. I race to the goal for the light without losing sight. Sometimes it will be a bad day where nothing goes my way. But even the tears blurred the sky, I am sure my smile will come back tomorrow. It is okay, there is nothing out there to fear as I keep believing I am strong. Without you around, there is nothing to worry about. I felt as if the sky was laughing with the sweat and tears I built up. I am sure I will come out from the clouds dazzling. Even if I end up feeling anxious from it all. As long as I have faith I can pull it through, impossible is nothing to me. The rain has taught me valuable lessons to always never give up. Hearing the sound of thunder claps gives me strength and seeing lightning strikes makes me more diligent in the way I live my life... There is more to say but there is no need for words anymore.... The deepest cave and the highest tree... 

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Final Touch T_T

Every time as I walk pass her class
With excitement I would look through the glass
Just to admire her natural smile
Even if it is only for a little while
Memories of her is like a song
Always unfailingly inspiring my heart to be strong
Everything around me changes so fast
Promises that have been made never last
Surprisingly without a word, you left
Eventually leaving me behind bereft